Be All You Can Be

At the end of last year, I moved to Venice. I love the area for its quirkiness, artiness, its proximity to the beach and at times, its grunginess. As that’s how it was throughout most of my life growing up in Los Angeles. Sure, it’s becoming gentrified, but still manages to hold on to its seedier side. A part of which, unfortunately, is an extremely large homeless population. I’ve grown so accustomed to it, that I kind of turn off my brain to the problem. I just take it in, as part of the scenery as I’m out and about. I know, I know. That sounds very shallow, but it’s such an overwhelming problem, that I often don’t think there is much one can do on a personal level and that it’s generally a problem that needs to be addressed by the city as a whole, but I digress. I want to get back to what inspired me to write again, after all these months away. Before I forget this event that I not only want to remember, but feel needs to be shared.

I had hopped on my beach cruiser, as I often do on the weekends, to run errands. On my way back to my place. I was stopped at the intersection of Lincoln and Washington, one of the busier intersections in the area, when motorcycle pulled up a few lanes over, as we waited for the light. As I usually do, I took a moment to check out the guy’s motorcycle. Having a class M license, but never having pulled the trigger on a motorcycle myself, I often contemplate buying one.  Still waiting for the light, I hear honking and see a homeless woman in a wheelchair, ignoring the don’t walk signal and wheeling herself out into oncoming traffic.  Cars stopped.  Horns honked.  I just watched.  It being Venice and all I thought to myself “another crazy homeless person”.  Suddenly, the rider puts the kick stand down and gets off his motorcycle at the light.  He throws up his arms, stopping traffic, runs out into the street and hurriedly pushes the woman and her wheelchair to safety, to the other side of the intersection  Myself, still firmly seated on my bike, and everyone else safely in their vehicles, just sit and watch.  I then notice the guy is wearing desert camo pants, a beige top, military boots and is in excellent shape.  He asks the woman if she’s OK.  She says something to the extent of “thank you, my hero”.  At which he gives her a thumbs up, jumps back on his motorcycle, seconds before the light turns green and rides off into the still rising sun, northbound on Lincoln.

I sat there a second.  A mixture of inspiration and shame washed over me.  Me or anyone else there at the intersection, could have and should have done the same thing, but we didn’t.  And sure, with all the cars stopping and honking, she most likely wouldn’t have been hit by a car, but there’s no guarantee.  He put himself in danger to help someone in need.  Now, I have no concrete evidence, outside of his clothing, that he was in the US military, but given his actions, I tend to believe he was.  It gave me a sense of pride, that despite all the negative news we are often inundated with regarding the war, that people with good intentions are still joining our armed forces.  I know you’ll never read this, but thank you motorcycle rider, for giving me inspiration today and for teaching me a harsh lesson.  Do the right thing, even when it’s not the easiest, most convenient or safest thing to do.  Actions always speak louder than thoughts or words.

The Best Part of Waking Up.

At 5:30am I groggily emerged from my warm bed into the cold morning.  As I shuffled through the living room, the smell of fresh-brewed coffee wafted from the kitchen.  I rounded the corner ready to pour myself a cup of hot coffee before hitting the gym, only to find coffee all over the kitchen floor?!  Still half asleep, my mind took a minute to process exactly what had happened.  The previous night, when I prepared my coffeemaker for the next morning, admittedly somewhat stoned, I had forgotten one integral component.  The coffee pot.  Which was still sitting in my dish rack.  Whoops.  I don’t think this is quite what Folgers had in mind when they came up with their jingle.  Thankfully, I was able to salvage one gritty cup of coffee from the filter basket and after 15 mins of cleaning, was off to the gym. 

A Moment of Your Time.

“Loner, I hate to do this, but may I have a moment of your time?!”  Keith exclaims strutting towards me as I exit my parked car.  I had just passed him about half a block away on my way to work and he’s already in the parking lot, which means he must have started walking as soon as I waved good morning.  While I’m not threatened by Keith, despite the fact that he stands around 6’5” and 200 lbs I’d guess, he does have his manic episodes, so I’m not quite sure what to expect.  

Keith has been a fixture near my work for years and over that time I have gotten to know him a bit.  He’s been homeless since I’ve known him.  Keith worked at the nearby laundromat for a while, helping keep the place clean, before it went out of business years ago.  Keith now spends most of his day sitting under a pine tree at the corner of the block.  Exchanging pleasantries with various people, from construction workers, to other people who work nearby, like myself, and even people just passing by.  He’s originally from St. Louis and the details on how he ended up in Los Angeles are a bit hazy, but given his size I assume he may have played basketball at some point and recall that he’s into music.  Once when I was leaving work wearing an old Slayer shirt to workout in, Keith yelled out “Slayer!  Infamous butcher, angel of death!”.  This surprised the hell out of me and made me laugh for a good block or two as I drove to the gym.  I never would’ve guessed middle-aged black homeless man would know the lyrics to Slayer’s “Angel of Death”.

Keith is now standing inches away from me, with a very intense look in his eyes.  “Loner, when I was working at the laundromat, I was an angry, stupid motherfucker!”.  “OK?” I half chuckle out, because I’m not quite sure how to react to this information.  “Thank you!” Keith replies, shaking my hand and strutting his way out of the parking lot.  I stand there momentarily stunned, as I try to process what just happened.  It’s nearly 9 p.m. now and I’m home, but I’m still thinking about this brief exchange.  All that I can make of it, is that it’s possibly some form of redemption.  Possibly he’s trying to positively affirm his past, so that he stays on what he believes is the right path.  I don’t know him well enough to ask,  but it reminds me that all of us, ideally at least, should strive to be a better person than we were the day before.  Life is about growth.  Without that, we stagnate.

Young Men!

“Young men!” Casanova, the waiter at El Coyote, shouts out as my father and I enter the dining area.  He greets us like this every time we eat there.  We’ve been eating there for years now.  While I’m sure he greets many, if not all his male customers in this manner, it still feels genuine and I can’t help but laugh and smile when I hear it.  His zest for life is contagious.  Casanova truly seems happy to be alive and enjoying every minute of it to the fullest.  If I were in his position, hustling all day on his feet, I don’t know if I’d be quite so cheery and upbeat.  Hell, I often bitch about sitting in a comfy chair at my desk all day and doing paperwork, let alone running scalding plates of carnitas to ravenous customers.  Life is often about perspective.  It’s easy to take life for granted.  To forget just how fortunate we are to be here now.  Limitless possibilities available to us.  Each day, providing us some new experience.  Luckily we have people like Casanova to remind us.

A New Beginning

Originally, this site was meant to be an avenue for travel writing.  A tool to inspire me to travel more and a place for me to write about my adventures.  I’ve toyed with such an idea for too many years, but to little or no avail.  I’m realizing that this parameter is too restrictive. That’s not to say, that this site won’t feature travelogues, but in hopes of increasing my writing output, I’m going to open the site to my myriad interests. Topics I’m interested in include adventure, archaeology, comic books, heavy metal, history, horror films, martial arts, self improvement (physical and mental) and travel.

Moving forward, expect to see more posts on a variety of topics as well as an improved site design. Baby steps.

And yes, for you fellow horror film fans, the title of this post is a reference to Friday the 13th Part 5.

Hope

What I hope to accomplish with this site is two fold:  1)  Inspire me to travel more.  2)  Inspire me to write more.  I envision this as a means for me to not only document my journeys past and future, but to share them with you.  I don’t want to paint myself into a corner however, by defining my journeys.  Ideally, the majority of my posts will be about actual travels, accompanied with photos and whatever else I may feel is relevant to the story, but I also want to write about what I learn on my journey through life.

I know this site is very bland at the moment and that my posts are bare-bones.  This will change.  The site and it’s content will improve.  Right now, I’m just trying to force myself to sit in front of the computer and write.  Hopefully, this will get easier over time and become a habit, rather than a conscious, forced effort.  Please bear with me while I work out the kinks. For now, I’ll end this post with a quote that I’ve always liked and I feel pertains to this site.

“Life is a journey, not a destination.”

-Ralph Waldo Emerson